Can you recall doing something in which you were so completely immersed that hours flew by unnoticed? So connected in the action you performed that it became a goal in itself, effortless, and left you feeling deeply and completely satisfied?
People with autotelic personalities experience this regularly.
To a degree, we all perform duties and activities that aren’t intrinsically enjoyable. What distinguishes people with autotelic personalities, are that they find pleasure and value in almost everything they do as opposed to people who seldom feel that what they do is worth doing for its own sake.
The word autotelic means “having a purpose in and not apart from itself.”
This is the real secret of life – to be completely engaged with what you are doing in the here and now. And instead of calling it work, realize it is play. — Alan Wilson Watts
Are You an Autotelic person?
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, a Hungarian psychologist, has done years of research and writing on happiness and creativity, and describes an autotelic person to be internally driven, curious and purposeful. Recognition, riches or comfort are not motivating factors in their external pursuits.
An autotelic person needs few material possessions and little entertainment, comfort, power, or fame because so much of what he or she does is already rewarding. Because such persons experience flow in work, in family life, when interacting with people, when eating, even when alone with nothing to do, they are less dependent on the external rewards that keep others motivated to go on with a life composed of routines. They are more autonomous and independent because they cannot be as easily manipulated with threats or rewards from the outside. At the same time, they are more involved with everything around them because they are fully immersed in the current of life. – Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
Csikszentmihalyi developed the psychological concept of Flow, a highly focused mental state. He discovered that people find genuine satisfaction in this state. They are entirely absorbed in an activity, especially one that involves their creative abilities. During this optimal experience they feel “strong, alert, in effortless control, unselfconscious, and at the peak of their abilities.”
Without Flow, there is No Creativity
People with autotelic personalities tend to have a greater preference for challenging opportunities and learning skills that stimulate them and encourage development. They are also willing to go through an initial stage of activation that overloads the brain with information or taxes the body with new challenges.
He says that “most enjoyable activities are not natural; they demand an effort that initially one is reluctant to make. But once the interaction starts to provide feedback to the person’s skills, it usually begins to be intrinsically rewarding.” “Most people never push this first stage far enough,” notes Steven Kotler, “which is why they constantly miss the doorway to the flow experience.”
Autotelic individuals are more creative and innovative. “Without flow, there is no creativity”, says Csikszentmihalyi. People most likely to experience flow are those who have a complex personality and have mastered both differentiation and integration. Differentiation involves developing unique skills and becoming autonomous and different from others. Integration is the union with other people, ideas and the world in general.
The Five C’s of an Autotelic Person:
- Clarity: clear realisation of goals – knowing what you want to do as you go through the everyday activities of life.
- Center: focussed and at one with what you are doing, able to recognise and diminish distraction.
- Choice: of all the possible choices of action to be taken, which among them proceeds to Flow.
- Commitment: the ability to deeply care about, and commit to the activities you do.
- Challenge: setting higher goals for yourself as you master your current skill level.
Can We Cultivate Autotelism or Flow?
Csikszentmihalyi insists that happiness does not simply happen. It can be prepared for and cultivated by learning to achieve flow in our lives. The key aspect to flow is control: in the flow-like state, we exercise control over the contents of our consciousness rather than allowing ourselves to be passively steered by external forces.
Are there Activities that are More Likely to Create Flow?
Autotelic activities can be as diverse as playing a musical instrument, weaving, mountaineering, martial arts, yoga or sports. Flow tends to occur more often at work than in a leisurely setting.
Activities that create Flow have specific properties:
- There are clear goals every step of the way
- There is immediate feedback to one’s actions (one knows whether one is doing the activity appropriately or not)
- There is a balance between challenges and skills (too difficult for the person’s skill creates anxiety, and not difficult is enough creates boredom)
- Action and awareness are merged
- Distractions are excluded from consciousness (the removal of the interference of the thinking mind)
- There is no worry of failure
- Self-consciousness disappears
- The sense of time becomes distorted
- The activity becomes an end in itself
Maintaining Order in the Universe
The Buddhists have a good piece of advice: “Act always as if the future of the universe depended on what you did, while laughing at yourself for thinking that whatever you do makes any difference.”
It is this serious playfulness, a combination of concern and humility, which makes it possible to be both engaged and carefree at the same time. One does not need to win to feel content — helping to maintain order in the universe becomes its own reward, regardless of the consequences. – Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi